EYEONDV DV EXIT STRATEGY (FLEEING TO SAFETY)
*Keep in mind that many victims of domestic violence end up leaving their relationship as a result of a split second decision to save their or their children’s lives so they are literally having to go with only the clothes on their backs...AND THAT IS OK!! The lives of you (and your children if you have any) is of paramount importance. Although this is the case, it is still very important to have a plan in place because just knowing what to do and where to go can help you remain calm and make wise decisions in the midst of a catastrophe. Your plan will come together as a result of answering the following questions:
Where can you go in the event of a crisis?
*family, friends, neighbors, police station, emergency room, shelter, etc.
*memorize emergency contacts/numbers and hotline numbers
*know the location of the nearest police department
*have a clear agreement and plan with friends/family ahead of time to make sure they will be willing to help you in the event of a crisis
*are you able to remain at your destination for an extended period of time?
*reach out to a shelter, get as much information as you can, and apply if you need to or can.
*call your local domestic violence hotline to get as much information and resources as you can.
Will you be safe once you arrive at your destination?
*make sure that your abuser can not find you at your destination (will you be in an area where your abuser frequents or that of his/her family/friends?)
*will the person/people you will be staying with respect your confidentiality (will they tell your abuser that you are there or share any information with him/her?)
*is there a way to keep your vehicle concealed where you will be living (is there a garage?)